Namaste - Ni Hao

I found myself having drinks with M at Em by the river. Very cute. Half Chinese-half Indian. Seems very smart and well sorted out. He tends to be a wee bit too swishy for my comfort though. But a flash of his gorgeous smile kept me planted on my seat.

The date was actually going smoothly. We were both making jokes, which means we were both nervous, and we would catch each other taking stolen glances, which means we were both attracted. I was letting my mind wander with thoughts like “Geez, he got the best of both gene pools. Lucky bastard! Lucky Me”, and “I wonder which half is Chinese and which is Indian, the mom or the dad? The top or the bottom?”, “I hope he doesn’t smell…” But my thought bubbles burst when he told me he actually just got into a long distance relationship a few days ago.

HUWAT?!?! Obviously in shock, I blurted out “So what are we doing here?!” He tried to rationalize by saying that he knew I wasn’t looking for anything serious and that we can be friends (with benefits). I kept silent while trying to decide to cut my losses or be naughty. After having a few drinks in me, I gave in to my naughty side and amped up the flirting. I see…. So he wants to play on the side… Let’s play… I may be rusty at this but it’s just like riding a bike…

Let the games begin…..